We give non-violent consequences.
We encourage each other.
Each person is an individual.
Everyone is responsible for his/her own mess and success.
Everyone is allowed to feel good about her/his own body, and to have a safe 'bubble' of space.
We talk openly about feelings and problems.
We don't hit or hurt anyone.
We don't put each other down or call each other names.
No one is unfavorably compared to someone else.
No one is 'rescued' from learning the important lessons of life (unless they are in danger of harming themselves or others)
No one is to be tricked, forced or trapped into unwanted sexual touching.
Big problems are never a 'secret' to be swept under the rug.